Yes you are the AH. Instead of taking his food either eat what you ordered or order something else. I believe he should have told you before he lost A woman brought a disagreement with her boyfriend to the Reddit AITA community online, asking if she was a jerk to get upset with the man’s dinner choice after letting him pick Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: was asking my husband to change therapists wrong 2) because I know he enjoys his sessions with her. Help keep the sub engaging!
AITA for asking my bf to cut ties with his female best friend?
This is for my health but also because my lower self esteem has affected our sex life. Some of these changes have purely affected me eg getting skimmed milk in hot drinks and drinking less alcohol. Some were decisions we made together eg getting less takeout and using frying sprays instead of oil etc IMO you didn’t break up with him because of the gift but because you are with someone who doesn’t care about you and it shows. You can find whatever he’s so proud of in his pants with a number of other men who will also love you and respect you and remember you on Christmas Day. 8. TheMadIrishman AITA for eating the food my FIL served me and “r’uining” my boyfriend and I’s holiday. AITA for eating the food my FIL served me and “r’uining” my boyfriend My partner made the next few days so easy, except for my pain, which is what it is. She made me food, rubbed my feet, helped me to the bathroom, gave me my meds, made me iced lattes, and went to Cracker Barrel when I had a sudden craving for chicken and dumplings. All I had to do was lay there and heal. THAT is what the OP needed He may never get there. You are nta for asking someone to be respectful but you are for continuing to put time, emotions and effort into this utterly hopeless relationship. Cut your losses and focus on learning how to set healthy boundaries before you
Anyone else's partner beyond greedy ? getting fed up - Netmums
That should leave minutes to sit and talk with you while you are finishing up dinner. He could even help cook or start on some of the clean up. Or spending that time to do a simple chore like wiping and setting the table, updating I prefer a neater space. I make my bed every morning and he chooses not to make his. I often cook for us, clean his kitchen after cooking for us, and do things for him without being asked such as washing and folding his clothes that are left at my house, etc. When he comes to stay at my house he’s often the last one out of bed This is what mine does too and the 2 older kids are at school all day too!! Or in bed when the food disappears. My friend buys a large chicken gets a